Why we are called "Suicide Server"

We named this server after our crew nickname, the "suicide squad," and our tongue-in-cheek slogan, "You have to kill yourself to make this connection...".

Because of the name, we get visitors who are looking for help with suicidal thoughts. This page exists for them. If that is you or someone you care about, we want you to know you are not alone and help is available below.

You are always welcome to talk with us on our community spaces:

• Forums (Lemmy): https://lemmy.suicideserver.net
• Matrix chat: https://matrix.suicideserver.net

Suicide Prevention & Crisis Support

You may be feeling alone, overwhelmed, or unsafe right now. You might think that things will never get better, or that no one can understand. But you are not alone. People do care about you, and there are people who want to help you. Whatever pain or crisis you're going through, it is real and it can change. You deserve support and there are others who have been where you are and want to help you find a way through.

Please reach out for help and talk to someone you trust. You could speak with a friend, family member, counselor, or any of the services listed below. Talking about what you are feeling can relieve pressure and help you find a bit of hope and strength.

Immediate Help & Hotlines

• Emergency services (if you are at immediate risk): Call your local emergency number (for example, 911 in the US, 112 or 999 in the UK/EU, 000 in Australia). Let them know someone is in a suicidal crisis.
• US & Canada: Call or text 988 (the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline). You can also chat online at 988lifeline.org/chat. The service is free, confidential, and available 24/7.
• UK & Ireland: Call Samaritans at 116 123 (free 24/7). You can also use their online chat.
• Australia: Call Lifeline Australia at 13 11 14 (24/7 crisis support). You can also chat or text with Lifeline via their website.
• Text Support (US): Text HOME to 741741 to connect with a Crisis Text Line counselor (free 24/7 support by text).
• International: Visit FindAHelpline.com or Befrienders Worldwide to find local suicide helplines in your country.

Additional Resources

• Crisis Text Line: Free 24/7 support via SMS in the US (text HOME to 741741) or internationally at crisistextline.org.
• NAMI (US): National Alliance on Mental Illness HelpLine at 1-800-950-NAMI (6264) or text “NAMI” to 62640 (available M–F 10am–10pm ET).
• Befrienders Worldwide: A global network of emotional support centers; visit befrienders.org to find a center near you.
• Other support organizations (e.g. IMAlive for online chat, The Trevor Project for LGBTQ youth, Papyrus HOPELINEUK for young people in the UK, etc.) provide specialized help and information.

Supporting Someone Else

• Ask and Listen: If someone you know is in crisis, ask them directly if they are thinking about suicide. Be calm and non-judgmental. Listen to what they have to say and let them know you care about them.
• Offer Support: Encourage them to talk with a mental health professional or one of the helplines above. You could offer to go with them or help them make a call. Sometimes just sitting together and listening can help someone feel less alone.
• Stay Safe: Do not leave someone alone if they are seriously considering suicide. Remove any means they might use to hurt themselves (like pills or weapons). If you think they're about to act, call emergency services immediately.
• Keep Checking In: Continue to follow up with them. Let them know you care by checking in regularly. Even a text or quick call to say “I’m here for you” can make a big difference.
• Take Care of Yourself: Helping someone in crisis can be emotionally draining. Make sure you also have support. You might talk to someone you trust about how you feel or consider contacting a support line for friends and family of those in crisis.